🌿 Month Six — Accountability vs Allyship
Welcome Message
You’ve named the systems. You’ve mapped the norms. You’ve exposed the power.
Now we step into the space most organisations fear: accountability.
Allyship performance is everywhere — statements, posts, public gestures. But true accountability isn’t performance — it’s how you respond when harm occurs.
This is where leadership often fractures: when being called into accountability feels like harm, instead of responsibility.
This month, we shift you into deep repair work: how leadership moves past fragile defensiveness into sustainable justice-rooted leadership.
Your Learning Tools for Month Six
Leadership Reflection Journal
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Guided personal journaling for leadership teams.
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Main Reflection Prompt:
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“When have I confused my good intentions with doing the actual work of repair?”
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Deep Reflection Prompts:
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Where have I prioritised comfort over accountability?
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When has discomfort made me defensive?
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What repair conversations am I still avoiding?
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Who holds me accountable with care and honesty?RP Month 6 Leadership R…
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Leader’s Call-In Script & Coaching Prompts
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A practical script for receiving feedback and being called into accountability:
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“Thank you for trusting me enough to name this.”
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“I am responsible for the impact of my leadership.”
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“What do you need to feel safe moving forward?”
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“I will follow up with you directly on next steps.”
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“This is not your labour to carry.”
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Coaching Prompts for self-reflection when harm is named:
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What discomfort arises?
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Am I centering my own comfort or the harmed party?
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What does true repair require?RP Month Six Leader’s C…
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Reflection Case Studies — Intent vs Impact
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3 fictional-but-real scenarios for leadership teams to explore:
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The Defensive Apology: “That was never my intent.”
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Silence Is Safer: “We don’t want to politicise the workplace.”
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Private Complaints: “We’ve handled it privately.”
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Includes team reflection prompts on:
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Who benefits from these behaviours?
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Who is harmed by avoidance?
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What would real repair require?RP Month Six Reflection…
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Affirmation of the Month
“We will not confuse being called in, with being harmed.”Month 6 Affirmation of …
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Use this affirmation to ground your leadership teams when feedback arises.
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Accountability is not harm — it is an invitation to return to integrity.
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🔑 Why This Month Matters
Most DEI failures are not failures of knowledge — they are failures of accountability.
The organisations that will lead into justice-led leadership are those that learn how to repair harm with courage, care, and consistency.
Month 6 Wrap-Up & Next Steps_ Embedding Justice as a Continuous Commitment
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